Grace and Zoe are now walking masters, if not running
queens, and really starting to talk.
Zoe, especially, will really try to say a word after you prompt
her. She may get only the first
syllable, but she really is giving it a try.
Grace is a bit more hesitant, which is funny, since she was always the
one to do things “first.” But not when
it comes to talking – here, Zoe has the upper hand. Some of the words that Zoe has now mastered
are Mama, Mom, “G (pronounced like Jah)” for Grace, pad-pad (for iPad), and all
sort of body parts: head, hair, ears, eyes, nose, teeth, feet, hands. There are so many more that I am probably
forgetting, but those are the ones that she really has down pat. Oh, and she has a lot of animal sounds down. Lately
she has started to say “poop”, though if you ask her if she has pooped, she
shakes her head no. J I think my favorite thing to get Zoe to say,
though, is Pout-Pout. It just sounds so
cute coming out of her.
Grace has really developed a vocabulary in just the last two
weeks. She went from what Kris and I
dubbed her “Mama, Ball and Moo” phase to really differentiating between
things. For a while, every person was “Mama,”
every object was a “ball” (said with a very southern drawl – no idea why!), and
every animal said “Moo.” She still uses
Moo for most animals, but she is slowly getting the hang of other sounds.
I think what has been the most amazing part of this phase in
their lives is the level of understanding they can demonstrate. I mean, even though they don’t have the words
to speak, they really get what you’re saying to them. I can ask them to pick up something and bring
it to Mama and they totally get it. I
can ask them to find something in a room (a very messy, torn apart by two
toddlers, room) and they will go looking for it. If we tell them to put their books back on
the shelf, they’ll do it. And dear,
sweet, Grace, will (unprompted) bring Zoe her blanket if she is crying and
upset. Grace loves to be helpful.
In addition to really developing their vocabulary, they’ve
both been working on asserting their independence. In doing so, they’ve really been trying to
test their limits, both with each other and with us. We’ve really gotten a glimpse of the future,
I think. Poor Grace will take so much
time to position herself juuuust right on the couch, with one of her favorite books
in hand, just to have Zoe walk up and snatch the book away. Much crying ensues when we take the book away
from her and give it back to Grace. Zoe
definitely feels that the injustice was against her. Sigh.
Lately we’ve had a lot of standing on the couch/ottoman/chair, touching
the [fill in the blank with something we’ve repeatedly told them not to touch],
and just a general lack of sharing. And
granted, sharing may be a concept that is a little beyond their age, I would
argue that they know what they are doing when they steal something from the
other.
They have been so much fun to be home with. It’s not an easy job being a SAHM (even part
time), but I have to say that getting to watch all of this amazing growth
unfold before me has been a blast. I
think they really like having each other to play with now. I am mesmerized by their games – for
instance, they’ll take a deck of card and “trade” cards back and forth for 10
minutes(!). They make each other laugh,
even when one of them has been in the throws of a fit. So, despite all the toy taking, they still
love each other.
Lately I have been going back to the video I made of the
girls for their first birthday (posted in Kris’ earlier entry), and I can’t
stop thinking about the friendship that the girls are going to have as they
grow older. Knowing that they’ll always
have each other brings me a lot of comfort.
I look forward to watching that unfold.
“The way you take my
hand is such so sweet…. No matter what I do, my heart is filled with you.”
“I can’t image what it’d
be like living each day in this life without you.”
-Colbie Caillat “You
Got Me”